Nice Guys Finish Last

In this modern age, there are civilized and uncivilized people. We are in an age of ignorance.  Good people are hard to come by. It’s sad, people that are nice, caring and wonderful get pushed around because they aren’t corrupt like others. People with insight know when something wrong is happening. They can make a distinction. Today’s corrupt people have been disorientated from the concept of right and wrong, distorted, if you will. When one speaks of something good, people make faces and object with baseless excuses. When some evil indulgence is mentioned, they take pride in participating it with full heart without hesitation. They may be happy and hyper, jumping around here and there, but deep inside, their hearts are cold and dead. If one doesn’t conform to their corrupt standards and objects to all the wrong-doings they take part in, the majority degrades the individual and makes a disgrace out of him.

The righteous one, however, has nothing to fear. Why? Because he is gifted with nobility, not to take such slanders and rumours to heart. If somebody isn’t guilty, these “insults” wouldn’t make a speck of a difference. The person should be strong and cut himself off from such people. Just becuase people sit in a certain group, it doesn’t mean that they should consider themselves as a bunch of elites. They shouldn’t think that people need them. People don’t. They survived without them before, they can survive without them again. In three months, I observed this phenomena. A group of friends. They seemed to be nice, caring, sweet and all goody two-shoes. As time progressed and spent time with them, I started to observe things. Disturbing things, sad yet true at the same time.

Height of barbarism and immorality. They were always busy in creating fights amongst each other and pulling each other’s legs. They had nothing better to do. When good things were spoken of, nasty faces would be made and mean looks given. In the absence of some, the ones present would criticize and backbite about the ones who were absent. As they say, “Birds of a feather flock together.” They all possess the same qualities, the most significant one, IMMORALITY. Lying on the face, making stories, accusing the innocent. The social boycott of the innocent, projected as guilty in the group. A major injustice indeed. As I watched people cut themselves off, they were the topic of discussion for a couple of days. I analyzed why. The ones who cut themselves off, WERE innocent. They had realized that they had fallen into a social deathtrap. They escaped before any further damage could take place. Soon, it was my best friend’s turn. He was talked about harshly in his absence. Upfront, the group acted all sweet and nice. Selfish people, used the innocent for their own purposes. When he couldn’t do anymore, he thought he would still be accepted as a friend. No. In fact, the opposite happened. Rejection. When things with my friend were getting bad, I had already known that my time was nearing. Why? I saw the corruption manifesting itself in the group. Every single person, selfish. Finally, the time came. Rumours and false allegations were at their peak. I decided, it’s time to cut off. It’s sad. All the people who are nice, caring and actually have rational feelings are blacklisted. That’s the mistake us nice guys make. We give in to society to easily. We care for people with all our heart, give them our best. Every effort and endeavor, down the drain. Nobody can be trusted. Everything you may say can be distorted through corruption and thrown back at you with greater magnitude. It’s no point reasoning with such people. Things will be used against you.

No matter how much these people think they’ve understood how we nice people are, they’ve misunderstood. There aren’t very many nice guys left in the world, a very small population is left. Alone, a nice guy will be overwhelmed and socially destroyed by the corrupt ones. The best tactic is for all the nice guys to unite and fight corruption with full force. Destroy the hatred using kindness. I hope you don’t fall into this trap. If you do, I hope you have the strength to tackle it with full will-power. I did. I am glad I am out of the corrupt group of individuals. Dedicated to all my mates who are victims of such injustice and to everyone else who’ve been through this.